There are always different phases that occur in a relationship. Some are lovely while some are dreaded ones. There are days when you just couldn’t help staring at him like a star struck and then there comes a day sometimes that you are so mad at him that you couldn’t even look at him. While life is full of ups and downs, these are the actual moments when your relationship is tested. This is that phase which you need to face together and suffer through while holding hands. And that’s why I would suggest taking a look at these Deep Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend to Strengthen The Relationship. Also, know if your relationship is still the same or things have started to change.
Oh no, don’t think that asking him questions will become a nasty nagging habit. It’s the foremost rule of a relationship to have a nice, transparent communication between two people. It’s important so that they don’t drift apart because of few things that were left unsaid. So these questions are something that will bring him closer to you and will make your relationship thrive throughout the life. You could use some quotes too to express your feelings.
Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend to Strengthen The Relationship.
Which movie do you think would resemble our love story had it our story been a movie?
This is kind of a fun question. Everybody watches a movie or reads a story that makes them feel as if they are reading their own biography. Some stories are something that one can easily relate himself to. Imagine your glee, if he says the name of your favorite romance movie!
What’s your favorite memory of me?
A simple question but one that would bring a smile on both of your faces. Reminiscing an old memory which brought you two together will eventually refresh the memories between you two.
What things that I do that you pretend to hate but actually like them badly?
Sometimes there are few things that you do which drives him crazy but deep inside he is really fond of them. I’ve read enough love stories to know that it’s actually true. Because, girls, there is always a time when it’s fun to take him out on a crazy ride, isn’t it? Know more about such compatibility between these two signs.
Which kind of non-sexual touch of mine makes you feel loved?
Where sex is, of course, an important aspect of a relationship, there are also these cute little, innocent touches that truly holds significance. Ask him if he loves when you play with his hair or when you are playing footsie with him.
What is your favorite song of all time? Is there any reason for that one?
A man loves music and always has one favorite of all time. Simply because it feels nice to hear something soothing and relaxing or there might be some memories attached to the song. It might come handy if ever you plan a surprise dinner for him! Or if the memory is related to his previous love life or something, you could also know about that.
What are your favorite memories with your family?
A family is the first school in a child’s life. And every one of us has some fond memories that we like to reminisce again and again. Ask him which are his favorite memories with his family. Simply to know more little things about him that will also refresh his mood.
What’s a question that you are actually longing to ask but just couldn’t do it?
Well, this one is tricky. You never know what he’s been trying to ask you but when it comes to voice the question, all of his wits are lost somewhere. Give him a chance to let it out. Who knows he might ask if you would marry him! Wink! And if indeed he asks you that then you must ask yourself these few things.
What’s the best thing about us being together?
Not every relationship is perfect just as no single person is. But there is always something that is best in us as well as in a relationship. This question will bring a new light into your relationship.
What is your dream that you wish to make true one day?
An inspiration is needed to get something in life that one crazily desires to have. Be his inspiration! Ask him about his dreams and help him to get them.
How much space do you want in our relationship?
No guy wants a clingy girl and no girl wants an over possessive guy. Trust, honesty and love are the main ingredients of every relationship. So it’s kind of important for you to know that you are not making him feel suffocating. Ask him what he expects in the relationship and in turn tell him too about what you feel.
Sometimes, it takes a lifelong to know someone and sometimes a few moments will suffice. There is not enough time to spend with your loved ones, so make it worthwhile.